Motivation | How To Control Anger

Motivation 

How To Control Anger? 

Let us come to know about this famous topic in detail, with a story of a little girl and her needless anger, also how her teacher helped her to control anger? Whereas, our last post was How to Improve yourself in life? | Or  How To Improve Ourselves At Every Moment, if you want to read then click here

• This is about a little girl who used to get very angry without any kind of reason. Whenever she used to get angry, she does not see who is standing in front of her. Even at times, the girl used to pick up the things and throw them away. Her parents did not understand what to do so that she would stop getting angry.

• They tried a lot, in different ways to make that girl understand. But that girl was not understanding, then once her parents talked to her tuition teacher about this. Because in the whole world the tuition teacher was the only person whom she used to try to understand. 

• The teacher told those parents, don't you worry. In the coming time, this child will be very less angry, and will also listen to your words properly and try to behave well. Her parents did not understand, but they thought about what goes into trying.

What was the solution to control anger?

•  Then as usual when that teacher came to teach in the class and the class was about to start, the tuition teacher told the girl that today we will not study but play a game. The girl was very happy to hear this, then the teacher went outside the house with the girl and stood against the wall. 

• And the teacher said to that girl that now whenever you get angry, you have to do a little work, you have to take a nail and bury it as little as possible in this wall. 

• So on that, the girl asked the teacher what would happen to this nail? The teacher replied that when this game is over, you will get a reward. Then she did as her tuition teacher had told, that is, whenever she would get angry. She would go near the wall and stick a nail into the wall according to her strength. 

• As she used to get very angry, so many nails were made at the beginning itself. But in order to drive those nails deep, she would have to go back again and again, and exert strength, to drive the nail into the wall.

• So, she thought that she can bring her anger under control with less effort than the hard work she puts into the nail. So with this thought in mind, she considered controlling her anger, and the next day she hammered a little less than the previous. The next morning there were fewer nails made, then even fewer. 

• Along with this, her anger started decreasing as well as, sweetness started coming into her nature too. 

• While doing the same, one day it came that she did not even get angry at once and then not a single nail was drilled in that wall. The girl was very happy and started smiling. With the same smile, she went to her teacher and said that look, "now I have not hit a single nail", because I did not get angry even once. So her mam praised her and the mam went and stood in front of that wall with him.

What was the twist?

• Now, here was a twist, her teacher said that the game is not over yet. What do you have to do? whenever you do not get angry like this, then the next morning you should remove a nail from this wall. So the girl did the same, but due to the large number of nails, it took a little longer to get them out. Whereas, there came a moment when there was not a single nail left.

•  Then the girl was very happy and went to the teacher and said that now there is not a single nail on that wall. 

• So on this, the teacher went with her again in front of that wall, after not seeing a single nail, gave that girl her favorite chocolate gift, and said that you have won this prize. With this, the girl became even happier, and the teacher said that do you see anything else on this wall? 

• In response, that girl said that no nothing, because all the nails have come out. But when the teacher asked again, she said that after removing the nails which were stuck on this wall, there are some marks on the wall. 

• After that teacher said like you nailed this wall, now you have been able to remove that nail, but not its marks. This is how it happens, whenever you are angry with someone, when you are angry with anyone, their heart hurts and leaving a mark there. 

• It is very difficult to get or remove that mark. Hearing this, she realized her mistake and started crying. Suddenly, she ran to her parents and hugged them and said that I will never be angry from now on and after that she really stopped getting angry unnecessarily.

Important Note,

• This story is not only of that girl, but of many people, who lose themselves just in needless anger, or in other things. Instead of that we should think about becoming better every moment and always keep working on it.

• Random things make you angry. For example, in exchange for random thoughts here and there, which put a bad effect on anyone. The best solution is, instead of indulging in these,

• we should remember God, 
• read stories of old heroes, or 
• we can work on improving meditation. 
• You can read motivation books or blogs to stay motivated, as well as 
• Either read books or blogs to learn something.

• To control our anger or to improve ourselves, we should work on our thoughts, keep our environment clean. Nothing makes you angry, you choose to become angry psychology. 

• Because it is a natural thing that whatever we see has some effect on our subconscious mind. So always make a habit of observing, seeing good things, and move forward with good thoughts. Hope you enjoy reading this, also share it with others, thanks a lot.

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